I returned to my kitchen table, the place where I so often studied, with a question on my mind. I was trying to determine why the Creation account of Genesis was so important. In so many passages in the Bible, when discussing women and marriage, that is the truth that was referenced. So as the question pressed on my mind, I bowed my head to ask The Lord to show me the truths that I needed to see. I opened my Bible, and began to read.
It always brought awe into my heart to think that God merely spoke and the Creation stood forth. Psalms 33:9 states: For He spake, and it was done; He commanded, and it stood fast. What a demonstration that He is the Almighty and All-Wise God!
Now I would continue with my examination of this amazing Creation. As I read through Genesis, I found a repeated pattern. God created and then looked upon His Creation and made a declaration as to the goodness of the Creation.
- Day 1: And God saw the light, that it was good.
- Day 2 and 3: And God called the dry land Earth; and the gathering together of the waters called He Seas: and God saw that it was good. And the Earth brought forth grass, and herb yielding seed after his kind, and the tree yielding fruit, whose seed was in itself, after his kind: and God saw that it was good.
- Day 4: Speaking of the sun and moon and stars: And God saw that it was good.
- Day 5: Speaking of the sea creatures and the winged fowl: And God saw that it was good.
- Day 6: Speaking of the animals on the earth: And God saw that it was good.
Over and over again, God declared that His Creation was good. But for the first time in the Scriptures, God declared that something was not good.
And The Lord God said, It is not good that the man should be alone; I will make him a help meet for him. Genesis 2:18
There it was – the thing that was not good. It was not good that the man should be alone, and immediately God revealed the solution. He would make a help for the man.
I sat there and pondered the truth. It is not good for the man to be alone. It is not good for the man to be alone. Then in my mind, my husband’s name was written above that verse. It is not good that “David” should be alone.
Wait! I had one of the most independent and self-sufficient husbands ever! I had even thought, at times, that he could have been one of those mountain men of old. He could have lived alone forever. Wouldn’t have bothered him!
But that wasn’t what the Word of God seemed to be saying. It is not good that the man should be alone! There was no indication that the man had realized it was not good, and he certainly had not asked for a help. No, it was God that said that it was not good for the man to be alone.
I thought some more. I felt sure that David did not realize that this truth applied to him, but the Word of God was clear – It is not good that the man should be alone!
But that thought was not what impacted me so strongly. What rang through my heart was: I will make him a help meet for him! God was the One who planned for the woman. God was the One who designed the woman. God was the One who created and formed her with one specific purpose in mind – to be a help to that man. The woman was not planned for, designed, nor created by man, but by God Himself.
I could see that being a woman was a special creation – a special creation with a specific purpose. As surely as the light, the waters, the earth, the plants, the sun, moon, and stars, and all the animals had a purpose, so, too, did the man have a specific purpose, and so, too, did the woman have a specific God-created purpose!
And then, the staggering and startling realization – it was God that had created me to be a woman. And it was God who had created me to be a help to David. I stopped in the tracks of my mind. God had very individually created me to be a wife to David. And, at that moment, God called me in a very deep way to give my life to that for which I had been created – to give my life to being a wife to David.
Tears began to flow! How had I missed this? Yes, David and I lived in a compatible relationship, but this call was so much more. My life had been so much about me, and, at times, even about ME being a good wife. But this was about God! This was about David! I had to get my eyes off of me! I had to look at David in a whole new way! God had created me especially for my husband!
Humbled, and with tears, I knew God would have to teach me. Truly, His ways are so much higher than mine! Teach me, Lord. That is all I knew to say! I had started out with a question, but how personal had been the answer.